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Momma Guilt



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Being a mother comes with its perks and challenges. 
Unlike any other relationship, this one has no exit door, unless you die 
(it is a "hilarious" but a true comment).


So mommas, tell me how far does this momma guilt push you ?? 

I am a mother of two and each day is either a surprise or a shock. Of course I love my minions and my world would just be so grey and plain without them. They add a flavour in my life which cannot be replaced. 


But there is always a BUT.

Well, for starters let's start with three GUILT feelings on which we end up judging ourselves !

                                              I am a terrible mother
I am a terrible mother
I am a terrible mother

 

Now, they maybe a zillions of things.

 

Things as per you, your schedule on which you end up judging yourself for even catching a breath. I am here to share the load with you guys and maybe learn and explore different tips and tricks .

 

Firstly, I need you to stop feeling the GUILT momma!! We are already being judged irrespective of being a good mother. I want you to know
YOU ARE THE BEST VERSION 
OF 
YOURSELF MOMMA 
 

I am going to share a few affirmations that have helped me 
and 
could help you out of sulking into the 
MOMMA GUILT

ONE: 

I need a break. 
I don't need to feel accountable or guilty for taking a breath and finding a piece of peace for myself.
How i feel and what I need are valid. 

TWO:

It’s okay if I am not a perfect momma
I am the best version of myself and growing each day as a mother and a person does not make me a bad mother.

THREE: 

I am a positive role model for my kids, I’ve got this.


FOUR:

The most important thing is that I'm there for my kids. 
Showing kids that having flaws is just been plain human and it has to apply to me as a mother.

FIVE:

I am proud of myself .



Every strong momma feels weak
But Breathe Momma and you 
GOT THIS


I hope this blog helps you understand you aren't the only one here feeling this guilt, and feeling it itself represents that you are a GOOD MOTHER.
Sending lots of love and momma power to all of you out there. 

Comments

  1. Dr Afreen PathanSeptember 27, 2021 at 6:31 AM

    So true.....whatever u do the guilt factor is always there.

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    1. Sarab KaurSeptember 27, 2021 at 7:13 AM

      I am Glad You could relate to it and I hope the affirmations help one and all.

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  2. LIFE-a succession f momentsSeptember 27, 2021 at 6:48 AM

    Beautiful and helpful

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  3. UnknownSeptember 27, 2021 at 7:01 AM

    True words

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    1. Sarab KaurSeptember 27, 2021 at 7:14 AM

      It is indeed a sad fact that we all mothers feel this Guilt all the time. I hope the affirmations help one and all.

      Delete

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