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MOMSTER MOMENT


Hello Mommas! 
I am back with a super cool blog about us having a moment being a 
"MOMSTER"

Of course, we are talking about rage issues 
                     
Coming from a momma who loses her temper at a drop of a 
TOY, FOOD, MILK
 psst..psst... 
sometimes even "NOTHING"
Don't judge me !
We are humans and we are "allowed" to feel all the emotions.

Okay then,
let me share with you a fun fact about what I do when I have my

MOMSTER MOMENT

Firstly, I am sure you all must be losing your "wise momma angelic" look at some point of time and if you haven't, you are either faking it real good in front of your kid or you are lying to me and yourself about it.

We Indian parents tend to blend in "a spoonful of yelling with a slice of guilt love jam"  to prove it to ourself, that we know we are not supposed to be yelling at a kid especially when they are toddlers or under 10. But we do it anyway!

I am a typical Punjabi Momma and when I get mad, boy o boy the punjabi outrageous and hilarious words start flowing out of my mouth just like bullets and kids don't even understand a thing because they only know one language so far and that is English.

So basically, when I start yelling in my mother tongue, is when they understand that momma is now angry and turning into a MOMSTER . 

Momma is
 trying to tell us something, and that thought and language is enough for them to understand "It's time to be nice"

So that is my fun trick to cover up, no harm to either one of us. 

Zero mental stress and job done.

This one was a fun version of the MOMSTER MOMENT blog.

I have previously put up a blog on how to handle kids without being a MOMSTER , in the " Momma hacks Blog", 
You will stumble upon some genuine tips and tricks on how to handle the mom rage and save the brain damage to your child. 

Share in your fun comments of how you handle your momma rage.
Stay tuned for the next blog post and show some love!!

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